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Foc Kelly Interview and Foc Her Ex Pastor Husband: LIVE from Lagos Nigeria

In this powerful and raw episode of 50 Shades of Blue Podcast, we sit down with the Foc Kelly you didn't know. Foc opens up about her painful past, including surviving an abusive marriage with her ex-husband, who was a pastor, and enduring sexual assault at the age of 13. She also shares the heartbreaking story of losing her children, a loss that reshaped her world.
Despite these immense challenges, Foc Kelly found a way to rebuild her life and emerged stronger than ever as a social media influencer with a story to tell. Now, in a new chapter of love and healing, she talks about her fresh start in her new relationship that you might not agree with. This is not just a story of survival but of resilience, empowerment, and owning your truth. Join us for an unfiltered conversation where Foc Kelly shares the journey of transformation from tragedy to triumph.
 
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Ep10: Krystal Light Yoga: Yoga & Sex, D**k Riding Class, Should You Tell Your Spouse Everything? Favorite Position

I had the pleasure of hosting a remarkable guest, Krystal from Krystal Light Yoga, on my podcast. Our conversation was filled with a wide range of captivating topics, primarily centered around the transformative power of yoga. However, our dialogue extended far beyond that. We explored intriguing subjects such as the connection between yoga and enhancing one's sexual experience, as well as the fascinating realm of twerk yoga, among other captivating discussions.
In the podcast, aptly named "50 Shades of Blue Podcast," our conversations have a tendency to venture into unexpected territories at any given moment. This particular episode was no exception. We delved into the significance of confidence as a crucial element for women seeking a fulfilling marriage.
Krystal's expertise and insights brought an extraordinary depth to our dialogue, leaving a lasting impression on our listeners. Together, we explored the vast possibilities that yoga offers, while embracing the unpredictable nature of our podcast, always ready to embark on new and exciting discussions.
 
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Ep9: Part 2: Dedrick Donnell & Cooking Naked for Charity; Plastic Surgery Woes; Dating and Solo Travel

Dating is a simple concept. However, when women use those terms, men often associate it with a focus on sex. In reality, dating is about gathering information and getting to know someone. What a person chooses to do with their body is their own business, and it shouldn't concern others.
 
In our candid conversation, we delve deep into the world of dating, cosmetic surgery, and more. I openly discuss my personal experience with cosmetic surgery, emphasizing that it was not driven by low self-esteem. We also explore the idea of auctioning off Dedrick for my nonprofit organization, which we find exciting and innovative.
 
Additionally, we discuss the benefits of solo travel and why I prefer it over waiting for friends. Our conversation flows naturally and relaxed, as if we were enjoying a laid-back moment together, perhaps even sharing a joint. Despite the chill atmosphere, the episode is filled with valuable information. Thank you for tuning in, and please feel free to share it with others!
 
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Ep8 : Part 1: Dedrick Donnell from Ready to Love Season 4; Black Men and Kink; Being a Breast Man

In our candid conversation, Dedrick and I delve into the complexities surrounding love, dating, and attraction, particularly within the context of the Black community. We shed light on the prevailing difficulties in discovering Black Love in contemporary times. Dedrick shares his perspective on what captivates him about a woman, emphasizing the importance of her kindness, gentleness, and ability to listen.
 
We also address the prevalent presence of masculine energy often exuded by Black women and delve into the reasons behind it. We acknowledge that many households within the urban community have not witnessed healthy relationships, which can shape individuals' behavior and perception of love. As a woman, I take responsibility for my past actions and express genuine remorse for any pain I may have caused. I believe that true healing can occur when both parties are prepared to embark on that journey.
 
Furthermore, we confront the impact of harmful communication within Black families during upbringing, particularly the detrimental effects it can have on Black children, especially young men. We openly discuss the historical oversexualization of Black women, tracing its roots back to the era of slavery.  Dedrick and I engage in an open discussion about the topic of kink within the Black male community. We explore the various dynamics and experiences that exist, shedding light on the intersection of sexuality and cultural identity.
 
Our conversation delves into the misconceptions and stereotypes surrounding Black men and kink, challenging the one-dimensional narratives often portrayed in mainstream media. We emphasize the importance of recognizing the individuality and diverse preferences within the Black male community, highlighting that personal desires and interests can vary greatly.
 
Through our dialogue, we aim to foster understanding, acceptance, and open-mindedness when it comes to discussing matters of sexuality and exploring different aspects of pleasure. We acknowledge that engaging in consensual kink is a personal choice and that it should be approached with respect, communication, and understanding between all parties involved.
 
Our intention is to create a safe and non-judgmental space for dialogue, promoting healthy conversations about sexuality and encouraging individuals to embrace their unique desires and preferences, free from societal pressures or stigmatization. While all of our podcast episodes offer valuable insights, our candid conversation with Dedrick about Black culture resonates deeply on multiple levels. We invite you to join us and listen to the episode in its entirety, as it holds profound significance and relevance.
 
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Ep7: Creating Your Business; A Safe Space to Heal; Starting Over After a Bad Marriage

In this special video, we have the pleasure of welcoming Marisol to the blue couch. Marisol is not only a dear friend but also an incredible creative force behind various ventures, including the Baxter Graham purse collection and other innovative projects. Join us as we dive into Marisol's journey as an entrepreneur, her role in shaping the logo and catalyst for my podcast, and the incredible creative ideas she brings to life. Discover the stories, challenges, and triumphs that have shaped her path and get inspired by her unwavering dedication and passion. Tune in to witness the power of friendship and the limitless potential of creativity in this engaging conversation with Marisol.
 
In this episode we dive deep into the world of entrepreneurship, relationships, and starting over. In this candid conversation, we share our personal experiences and insights as women who have embarked on the journey of starting and running our own businesses. From the exhilarating highs to the challenging lows, we discuss the ups and downs of entrepreneurship, providing valuable lessons and tips for fellow female entrepreneurs.
 
But it doesn't stop there. We also open up about our own experiences in dating and relationships, specifically focusing on the topic of starting over after a marriage. If you're a woman who has been through a difficult marriage and is seeking inspiration and guidance on how to start anew, this podcast is for you. We share our own stories of resilience, personal growth, and finding happiness after leaving toxic relationships. Through our stories of transformation and triumph, we aim to empower and uplift women who may be facing similar challenges. Join us on this incredible journey as we discuss the intersection of business, relationships, and personal growth, and discover that starting over can lead to a place of happiness and fulfillment.
 
 
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Ep6: Should Women Pay Half On a Date? Church and Sex, How to Date, Black Women and Friendships

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Ep5: Men Experience Abuse Too, What Do Black Men Want, Black Men and Therapy, Your Words Have Power

Hey Butterflies! Let's give a warm welcome to my friend and special guest, Zo. He has been a true lifesaver for me, and I'm grateful to have him here. During our chat on the podcast, we delved into a range of intriguing topics that sparked my interest. We touched upon Zo's personal experiences, including his past of being abused by his ex-wife and having a mistress for five years. Now, I'm not here to call him out but rather to share the facts. What stood out to me the most about our conversation was the importance of healing for Black men. Zo's honesty throughout the podcast was truly admirable.
 
Zo, a former minister who once engaged in infidelity, has now found his healing and is happily married. As we continue our weekly podcast episodes, you will witness my freedom and honesty unfold. I won't apologize for that. Every conversation we have is organic and authentic. We also delve into a term I coined called "Pretend Making Love," which served as a way for me to feel loved, if only for a moment.
 
I admire Zo's perspective on marriage and his belief in the role of a husband. It's wonderful to see him happily remarried and committed to faithfulness. He now loves himself and extends his help to others, providing coaching and support to couples seeking love and connection.
 
Moving forward, we discuss the notion that it's perfectly okay for women to actively pursue men. We challenge the conditioning imposed by religion that often holds women back. I refuse to subscribe to those limitations. Zo and I agree that women should shoot their shot and take control of their romantic lives.
 
This podcast is brimming with valuable insights that can guide you through life and the complexities of dating. Whether you're single or in a relationship, it's essential to live life to the fullest and find happiness in every moment. In conclusion, this episode might make you clutch your pearls, but I believe you'll be just fine.
 
We would absolutely love to hear your feedback! Tell us what you think. If you have burning questions that you'd love answered, don't hesitate to shoot us an email at 50shadesofbluepodcast@gmail.com. I'll make sure to respond while keeping your information private.
 
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Ep4: Is MasturbationA Sin? Women and No Orgasm, When His Bacteria Don’t Match Yours (BV), Is Marriage For Forever?

Ladies and gentlemen, get ready for a hilarious and thought-provoking episode of our show! Today, I have the fabulous Shekia Murray as my special guest. Shekia is not just a full figure model but also a delegate for Full-Figured USA Texas. Let me tell you, filming this episode for the second time was an adventure (Phewww!), but we finally nailed it!
Shekia and I delved into a wide range of topics, and let me tell you, the conversation flowed organically and authentically. We covered everything from sex to spirituality to marriage—no topic was off-limits!
Now, let me just say, vibing with people is not a rare occurrence for me, but Shekia brings a whole new level of openness to the table. We kicked things off by discussing colorism in the Black community. We all know the challenges that come with being dark-skinned within our community. It's a systemic issue that unfortunately persists. As a mother, I have a beautiful dark-skinned daughter, and from an early age, I made sure to continuously remind her of her beauty. Not just her, but all my children received the same message. But with the awareness of the stigma surrounding being "dark," I had to penetrate her psyche with those empowering words: "You are beautiful."
Now, let's talk about the juicy stuff—sex! We dived deep into the subject and left no stone unturned. Have you ever wondered if your partner continuously giving you BV is a sign that they're the one? And why are so many women struggling in the sex department, experiencing a lack of orgasms? We even tackled the clitoral orgasm vs vaginal orgasm debate. And hey, do you know where the G-spot is? Trust me, the conversation was filled with gems that will make you go, "Oh, I never thought of that!"
But hey, I won't spoil it all for you. I encourage you to listen to this very real and unfiltered conversation where we dropped truth bombs left and right. Some things might resonate with you, while others may not, and that's perfectly fine.
We would absolutely love to hear your feedback! Tell us what you think. If you have burning questions that you'd love answered, don't hesitate to shoot us an email at 50shadesofbluepodcast@gmail.com. I'll make sure to respond while keeping your information private.
So sit back, relax, and get ready for an episode that will leave you laughing, thinking, and maybe even blushing a little. Enjoy!
 
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Ep3: Part ll Michelle: Grown Woman Talk , Submit to Who?, No Horse Penis For Us, Male Strippers, Give Me A Nerd

It's unusual and maybe even taboo for Black women to have these conversations publicly, but it's time.  Why should we sit back in the cut pretending that we don't.  Most of us have been raised in a church that told us to sit down and be quiet. Nope, not any more.  Personally, I don't have anything against church, but I'm not that person to sit and be quiet.  I'm a voice that needs to be heard and so is my special guest, Michelle.  We are women with thoughts, feelings, and emotions.  Thank you for tuning in!
 
In this episode we talk about the type of men that Michelle is attracted to and so many other great topics.  Are you a woman that believes that a woman need to submit to their spouse.  Michelle and I disagree on this topic and it's ok.  Listen to what we each have to share.  When I left my sixteen marriage, there are 3 things that I wanted to do and one was go to a strip club.  I did it and loved it.  Yes, the preachers ex wife.  Actually, I learned some tricks there that I used ( ; 0 ) If you an Alpha Female, please listen because we are both Alpha Females and we own it.  Women, do not apologize for who you are and who God created you to be.  You are perfect!

Ep2: PART 1: Over 50 and No Lipstick On It. Seeing 5 Men, OH MY, Should Woman MASTURBATE

Join me and my friend Michelle as we talk about sex over 50 which is phenomenal and her dating experience with men at the matured age of (I'm not telling).  A few times we definitely disagreed, but we agreed to  disagree.  Michelle's dad is a pastor, but she did handle her hadle even when I called her religious.  Of course, she quoted scripture and she definitely disagreed with me surrounding the topic of MASTURBATION.  The conversation was so great that we had to make a part 2.  In this episode, like all, you are definitely going to clutch your pearls, laugh, and have tools that you can use.  
 
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